Monday, March 1, 2010
Just Forget about it-
"Listen,when I was a little girl, I used to spend hourslooking for ladybugs. Finally, I'd just give upand fall asleep in the grass. When I woke up,they were crawling all over me."
This is one of my favorite quotes from "Under the Tuscan Sun" This movie is about someone who is in my same situation where her husband chose he didnt want to be married and she was forced into finding herself again. Her friend was giving her advice that you may be contiunally looking for happiness not able to find it, but once you start actually living again you will find yourself surrounded with new things that make you happy.
She pretty muched summed it up, "Go work on your house, and Forget about it."
I am trying to just forget about the pain I've been put through, and just live again. I think this will help me not be bitter because if i dwell on what has gone wrong, i will become a wallower, one who see's no more sunrises, or the potential of a new day.
I guess I will try and remain busy, and just "forget about it"